Author Archives: Craig
Three Adventure Tips »
Posted on December 29, 2011AdventureDad was recently featured on The Grateful Dad Radio
Hour with host, Doug Gertner. Visit his show’s website,
www.castlerockradio.com, to listen to Craig talk about his early adventures, a life changing experience, getting into your kid’s “flow” and three tips for successful adventures! You can also find an archive of Doug’s other programs.
A Tragic Final Adventure »
Posted on December 28, 2011For years, we’ve said hi to and watched our neighbor Bill and his son Jackson, age
9, play out in the yard. Having been a single dad for some nine years, I felt kinship with Bill as he struggled to raise his son and stay involved in his son’s life. I very much respected that about him when so many men seem to walk away from their kids.
At nine years younger than my son, I used to talk with Bill about places to take his young son and how much we both loved being dads.
Several weeks ago, Bill and Jackson jumped into their construction van and headed to
their favorite camp spot on the Colorado River. Tragically, their bodies were discovered this past week victims of what police are saying was a murder-suicide.
None of us can imagine why Bill would take this path for him and his son. He was a dedicated dad who was constantly doing things with his son. We know his
son was struggling with school. We also know he wanted a new dog for Christmas and that, like every year before, they put up their Christmas lights in the Aspen trees. Perhaps Bill felt that his son, or himself, were facing some overwhelming pain and obstacles and that this option made sense to him in some distorted way.
I can also recall some of my own past pain of going through a divorce and being so
worried about what the future would hold for my young son and I. Would we be ok? I told him we would on a hut trip when he was nine but did so with great uncertainty and fear. I also recall periods of stress while trying to maintain a house, manage the finances of a business, deal with my own post trauma from the Columbine High School tragedy, deal with my dad’s death and continue to maintain a good relationship with my son. It was always our adventures I would look to however, when I reached my max and it was the adventures which kept us close.
Now, seeing the reporters and police out front, I’m left with deep sorrow for Bill
and his curly headed boy. All we will have are memories of the two of them on their many adventures. Building their own house together (Bill was gifted with this hands), playing ball, seeing Jackson on top of the step van as a preschooler (he loved to climb), watching Jackson scream around the corner on his Big Wheels and then in his electric car, borrowing tools for our home construction adventures, the two of them showing up late at night for our home fireworks displays, dropping off holiday treats for which they were always so thankful, and waving to them just a couple of weeks ago as they drove by in the
big white van just as they had done hundreds of times before. Bill waving and Jackson sitting tall in the front seat with his curly hair, riding off with his dad.
Rest in Peace
A 12 Month Father/Son Ski Quest Completed! »
Posted on October 30, 2011The original seed was planted by my Uncle Bernie over 30 years ago when I moved from Ohio to Colorado to work for him. I was intrigued when Bernie first mentioned that it is very possible to ski 12 months in a row here. While I knew that ski areas often opened in October, and might stay open until July, Bernie reminded me that one could hike and ski on St. Mary’s Glacier during the summer months, and thus complete the cycle of year-round snow sliding. Although I’d skied from Halloween to Memorial Day, I never actually took it to the next level…not until my son proposed THE QUEST.
My son Jordy (age 12) has become quite a skier, sharing my passion and joining me on many of my favorite runs, including some that I’ve already chronicled here at AdventureDad.org. And he must’ve heard me mention Uncle Bernie’s notion of a year-round ski season, because one day last spring Jordy said to me “Dad we need to do that, we need to ski 12 months in a row!” Twist my arm was the first thought I had, and I soon began to consider what it would take for us to successfully complete this quest. As I noted in a couple of earlier postings, our ski season began with some amazing early snow in November and December, along with a special Christmas Day slope-side picnic at Loveland Basin. The new year began with an artic cold day at Winter Park/Mary Jane, and then found us at Copper Mountain every weekend for Choppers (group ski lessons), plus some fun with friends at Vail. In February we ventured north to explore Steamboat Springs, where we also returned for a couple of days in March, after an awesome backcountry ski and hut adventure. And in April we celebrated the month that most major areas close by skiing back at Copper and Loveland.
To keep our quest alive, Jordy and I made a point of sampling the spring and summer snow at Arapahoe Basin in May and June. While the terrain was limited at that point, the spirit of the snow riders was jovial, including those who dared to try pond skimming. While neither of us wanted to risk a dunk in the icy waters, we laughed aloud watching skiers and snowboarders attempt to stay dry going from snow- to water-skiing across a makeshift pond located in a flat area halfway down the mountain.
A-Basin closed on July 4, and we were already on vacation on the west coast, but with some advance planning – I shipped my telemark boots and our helmets, gloves, and layers ahead – and the support of friends in Portland, Oregon, who loaned me some tele skis and gave us directions, Jordy and I ventured to Mt. Hood for some rare and wonderful turns at the famous Timberline Ski Area. What a kick to see racing and snowboard camps in full swing during mid-summer, and to mix with tourists staying at the massive timber and rock lodge built by Federal Works Progress Administration in 1937. And that’s where Maggie, the Adventure Mom of our family, awaited us after we checked off the July date of our quest.
Back home to a blistering Colorado summer, where temperatures reached 90 degrees for more than 45 consecutive days, August found us without an actual lift-serviced ski area, and thus taking our quest to the next level. We ventured to St. Mary’s Glacier near Idaho Springs, Colorado, where a short hike to a year-round snowfield offered us the best way to keep our string of consecutive months on skis alive. Joined by our friends, Adventure Dad and Copper Mountain Ski Patroller Jamie, and his daughter Sasha (age 16), fresh off of a 30-day NOLS course, we enjoyed bluebird skies, and light winds on our hike past St. Mary’s Lake, and up the Glacier. With skis lashed to our packs, and our ski boots packed inside, our load and the slick surface made for slow going. At a level area near the névé (top) of the glacier, we pulled over to the edge, put on our ski boots, and carefully made our turns down the crusty brownish snow that was cut with strange, undulating ridges for most of the way down. Not the prettiest skiing we’d done all season, but each of whooped with the joy of midsummer’s day fun at a typically winter time activity. Jamie, Jordy, and I repeated our sojourn to St. Mary’s again in September and hoped that a Colorado ski area would open the next month and permit us to come full-circle and complete our quest.
When October commenced with unseasonably warm temperatures, I became just a little worried, but soon learned that cold nights at altitude were permitting snowmaking at two front-range ski areas. Arapahoe Basin was the first to open for skiers on Thursday, October 13, with Loveland following the next day. And just one day later, Jordy and I were aboard Chairlift #1 for a few quick runs on “Mambo,” our quest complete, having skied 12 months in a row.
Our friends Jamie and Sasha are now aiming for the same goal, and Jordy and I plan to join them, wondering how many more consecutive ski months we might be able to tally.
Family Support Line »
Posted on October 30, 2011Need some parenting support? Check out Family First’s, Family Support Line http://www.FamiliesFirstColorado.org. They offer support, information and community referrals from 10 am – 10 pm for Colorado families.
AdventureDad’s 15 End of Summer Adventures »
Posted on October 30, 2011Check out Mile High Mamas for my 15 suggested summer activities. Writing the piece for them brought back a lot of great memories!
Al and His Adult Sons’ Adventures »
Posted on October 30, 2011On our recent trip to the Northwest, Alex and I met Al and his son Jeremy while backpacking on the Pacific coast. It’s a great conversation between a dad and his adult son who discovered adventures together when Al’s sons were in their teens. I especially loved Al’s discussion about being flexible around his sons’ interests and Jeremy talking about all that he’s learned from his dad. Enjoy.
Zip Lining Along the Colorado River! »
Posted on October 30, 2011We always thought of zip lining as something you did at a team building camp or above the canopies of some rainforest (the later one being one we’ve yet to try). Needless to say, we were excited when we heard about Zipline Adventure Tours located just outside Salida, Colorado. CaptainZipline.com offers a variety of packages including nature and history tours of the surrounding area. We chose the Zip and Sip. A two-hour late afternoon zip line experience with coupons for beverages at one of several Salida establishments. We chose the local brew pub for a root beer and fresh brewed IPA. The instructors were very helpful and fun and were particularly patient with those whom were a little more anxious with sailing over the canyons below. Mounting the Go Pro video camera on my helmet made for some fun shots!
Dogs and Young Families at 14,000 ft! »
Posted on October 30, 2011This July, Alex, Utah and I set out to climb Mt. Shavano located in south central Colorado in the Collegiate Range. When pulling into the campsite late Friday night, we were surprised to see how many hikers were there for this long and steep peak.
Along the way, we ran into lots of young adult hikers, as well as, numerous families with young children. As you can see on their post (http://adventuredad.org/667/adventures/a-sons-first-attempt/ ), Bryson was one of the youngest kids hiking the trail at 8 years of age as he and his dad ventured from the flatlands of Kansas. When reaching the summit, we were amazed to see a young couple that had taken up their 15-month-old daughter. As we talked, we found out that this was her 12th fourteen’r since starting at the age of 3 months. As you’ll see on our tips post (http://adventuredad.org/665/tips-and-gadgets/outdoor-parents-outdoor-kids/ ), you don’t have to give up your favorite couple’s adventures when children arrive.
You’ll also see Utah hiking along with lots of other hikers and dogs. She loves to take the lead and is often referenced by the hikers coming down before us.
Rain, Rain Come Out and Play! »
Posted on October 30, 2011June in Denver is known for beautiful sunny mornings followed by late afternoon thunderstorms. When Alex was younger, we would go out on the sidewalk and float down a variety of sticks and plastic boats toward the canal by our house. He would run along with excitement and splash along as the rain came down.
As a teenager with a truck, a whole new idea came to his mind as I was filming one of the biggest storms I’ve seen in 25 years of living here. As you’ll see on the clip, a very impromptu adventure came to life as the rain came down. I now see a boat in our future!
Squirrel Traps and a Dad’s Reflections »
Posted on October 9, 2011While coming over with his so for BB guns, our friend John talks about his Father’s letters. It’s amazing to have such a treasure.