Adventures!

Welcome to our Adventures section. Here you will find video clips and written commentary on our current adventures and activities. In addition to adventures with just Alex and I, we look forward to presenting our adventures with other dads and their kids. Over time, and with your help, we will present a wide variety of adventures in terms of cost, proximity and interest for dads and kids of all ages and genders. We also will have more meaningful discussion about kids and about being a dad. Please send us a comment about what you read or watch. You can ask questions or tell us about your own adventures with your kids!

Adventure: Participation in exciting undertakings; An exciting or very unusual experience.

Snowcat Adventures »

Posted on March 26, 2011

This story was sent in by AdventureDad Doug and his son.  Once again, the two of them have mastered the art of finding opportunities on the slopes!

An Opportunity to Ascend

“Hey Dad, can we ride the Storm King lift and make some turns in Spaulding Bowl?” That was the request of my son Jordy, a 12 year-old who likes to ski steep, ungroomed terrain, just like his dad. I agreed to his plan and we headed up the first lift, and then the second, only to learn that the surface lift was out of order. Bummer. But wait, it was Christmas weekend and the Copper Mountain Ski Patrol was not about to disappoint us or the rest of the eager skiers seeking this prime part of the area. To our delight, we found them running two snowcats up Spaulding Ridge, and we hopped in line for this rare treat of an enclosed trip to the top. When the huge machine showed up, we stowed our skis in the rack on back, and climbed in to the comfy seats for the five minute rocking ride. My smile and excitement fed Jordy’s, and we piled out, put on our gear, and skated to the cornice of a run called “Patrol Chute,” the steepest on the mountain, to celebrate our first-time up via a snowcat, and our first run of the day in honor of the crew who made it possible.

 

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A Vehicle Buying Adventure »

Posted on March 14, 2011

There are many experiences in life that gives a child/teen a sense of freedom and increases the adventures available to them.  Think about the thrill that comes with your first bike, as the wind whips through your hair (pre helmet days!).  As the child becomes a teen, nothing symbolizes freedom like a driver’s license.  Independence is the new norm as teens begin to experience the freedom and responsibility of driving.  I can remember being so proud as I watched Alex get his license photo taken the day after his 16th birthday.  This past weekend, a year and a half later, I got to watch and participate in Alex’s buying his first vehicle, a truck.

The shopping and buying experience was another unique adventure for us and I got to feel like a needed dad and proud observer of independence at the same time.  There were some great lessons here including his hours of research and fact finding (Carfax is great).  Equally important was tempering the urge to jump at the first one to come along and push a little further in one’s search as we leaned on friends whose experiences could guide us.  Also were the economic implications of working hard and saving money, deciding on a loan amount which he could handle, the reality of taxes and one’s first inspiration to have a political voice, and gas prices that were rising with each Google search.  Ultimately, the desire to have a monster truck overruled the realities of future oil prices, and a deal was negotiated with the car dealership.

As a dad, whose daily role of guidance and education is reduced with each passing day, the actual day of the car buying experience gave me a recollection of days past.  I got to feel knowledgeable again in the details of shopping, what traps to avoid, and the process of negotiating and playing one’s cards right.  In the end, I believe the three parties Alex, myself, and the dealer all felt satisfied.  As you’ll see in the video, it’s possible that the salesmen had as much fun as we did!

Given that it’s one big truck, we are expecting to have many great adventures with it.  We will definitely be getting our “Groove” on as we load up and head out!


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14 Hours of Darkness (AKA Winter Camping)! »

Posted on February 6, 2011

During the past holiday season, Alex and I took off on our annual winter camping trip.  Unfortunately, our friends LC and Austin were unable to make it this year so we were on our own.  In addition, this year, Alex wanted to camp at a higher elevation as well as sleep under a tarp rather than inside our 4 season tent.  As you’ll see in the video, it was spartan and cold.  Most difficult however, was the fourteen hours of darkness where the only activity is trying to stay warm.  We hope you enjoy!


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A Father and Son Bond Down Under »

Posted on February 6, 2011

Isaac’s “Invitation into a Community of Men” Weekend

 It was early Saturday morning December 11, 2010, and I had organised 5 other men to join me… to call my second son Isaac (14 years of age) out of the world of boys & women, and call him into a community of men, as I had done for his older brother 3 years earlier. This was to be just one of the numerous moments Isaac will experience during his 2-year long vision quest, which commenced on his 13th birthday, and will conclude on his 15th birthday with a final ceremony and celebration. It’s his rite-of-passage… the years set apart for him to transition out of the stage of boyhood, and initiated into young manhood.

 I had planned a weekend away for us all… a weekend of adventure (rappelling and fishing)… a weekend of masculinity bestowing masculinity.

When it came time to suit up our harnesses for our rappelling adventure… it was evident that Isaac was nervous. To say that he’s not fond of heights is an understatement. But he wanted to go over the edge and down the cliff nonetheless. And so he began. He pushed through his fears, and went over the edge… maybe 1 to 2 metres down the vertical rock-face, before telling our guides he wanted to climb back up to the top, and not continue downward.

Even though he had navigated through the scariest part of any rappelling experience (going over the edge), I knew as his father, I was needed at that moment, to speak against all of the waves of accusation that would come against him. And that’s exactly what was going on within him. He was ashamed that he had not completed the adventure. He wept openly, and referred to himself as a failure. That’s when I spoke truth into him… that he was not a failure… that despite his fear of heights, he went over the edge.

 After I had helped him to calm down, I asked him if he’d like me to buy him a Coke. He said that he didn’t deserve it, and so in I went again… to play my part as his Dad… to rescue him, to guard his heart, to speak against the lies with truth. It was beautiful.

 I wonder how things would have been had I not been there to interpret what he thought was failing?

 

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A Dad Takes Advantage of an Opportunity »

Posted on January 22, 2011

Check out this story sent in by Doug.  Thanks Doug, great job of taking advantage of a unique opportunity with the snow patrol!

Father and Son and First Turns of the New Ski Season

By Doug Gertner 

The anticipation was great, our first ski days of the new season. And early this year! With the November snow came a Thanksgiving outing to our favorite Front Range ski area, Copper Mountain. The anticipation may have been greater for me, a fellow Adventure Dad, because of the breakthrough last ski season when my son Jordy, then age 11, became my full and true ski buddy, a fellow double-black-diamond skier. We are not boys for the bumps, by the way, as we don’t seek out and spend time on the many mogul runs that some skiers relish. Rather, Jordy shares my longtime passion for the ‘sidecountry,’ the steep, deep, untracked powder and crud that makes every run and each turn a mystery and wonder to be encountered and conquered. And so, with that mystery on our minds, and the delight in our hearts, Jordy and I took to the lifts of Copper Mountain on the day after Thanksgiving, looking to ski the lines that would challenge our legs and our love of untracked snow.

Although much of the mountain was not yet open, we found some early runs for warm up that held particularly good snow for so soon in a season. Kudos are due to Copper’s crack Ski Patrol for opening so much terrain by late November. Once we had our legs under us, Jordy and I became curious about what else might be open to tempt and challenge us. From the Sierra Chairlift we could see that most of the terrain below was closed, so as we got off the lift, I asked a Copper employee what was actually open. This young man in an orange uniform provided the password to some unexpected and extraordinary early season adventure: DIRECTED SKIING. “If you ski down to that patroller in the red jacket,” he told us, “They may let you in to some runs that are roped off.”

Off we went with haste, not wanting to miss this unique opportunity. We arrived at the first ski patroller perched on the ridge above a series of choice runs, none of which had been opened yet this year, and we asked what was happening. “Directed skiing,” he replied, “Ski down to the next patroller and he’ll tell you where to go.” WHOO HOO! We skied off the ridgeline and into the deep snow, untracked and ready for us to carve are place in the face. Who could have imagined our good fortune to be among the first few folks to gain access to these runs this season?

We waited for direction, noting nearby the huge hole and surrounding grey snow that told of a recent powder charge explosion. Ski patrol was using all of their arsenal to safely open new terrain. We enjoyed a total of three laps on these runs, each involving a new line on fresh snow, each cause for celebration. Our season was off to a great start, and Jordy and I had a great story to tell Maggie at day’s end.

Day two found us back at it, still celebrating our first day good fortune, as we lined up for a ride on the Storm King surface lift that drags one skier at a time up a steep ridge where, when the season is in full swing, many great options abound. This ride was more about the view on a sunny, warm day, and we fully expected that our best option would be an easy cruise back down the ridgeline. We should have known that directed skiing was happening everywhere that weekend, for those brave and lucky enough to stumble upon ski patrol at work, and to venture where no skier had yet been this season. Indeed, when I asked the lift op at the top, he confirmed that ski patrol had entered Spaulding Bowl just 15 minutes earlier, and that adventurous riders were welcome to traverse over and be among the first to make turns in that area.

The first patroller offered concise words of warning: “These are early season conditions – rocks and other hazards may be barely covered with snow, so ski with caution, and be aware.” As so again we made our way into untracked terrain. Me first, as Jordy was a bit hesitant seeing the vast cirque with only a few riders making there way between the red jacketed patrollers who dotted the way down. I savored every glorious jump turn in the steep, virgin fresh, knowing that Jordy was close behind, turning his skis with excitement and trepidation. As I came to a stop at the next posted patroller, I asked her how my son looked coming down behind me. “He’s rippin’ it,” she replied “and only 12, huh?”

The final patroller we encountered warned us to use caution on the cat track that we’d be skiing to exit this area, and both Jordy and I skied in control along the road leading out. Gradually I found myself riding higher up on the left rise of the road, Jordy up ahead about 20 yards, as two other riders simultaneously overtook me at much greater speed. Suddenly I hit a large, concealed rock and skidded to a stop, jamming my arm into the unyielding impediment.

Immediately I scanned my body, focusing my awareness to determine if anything was broken or badly hurt. My left arm ached, my fingers felt cramped, but as I arose from the snow it was clear that I was lucky, and had escaped serious injury. Jordy shouted his concern, “ARE YOU OK, DAD?” and I assured him so as I rolled off the road, under a rope, to compose myself and assess my equipment. Although I blew out of both bindings – a rare occurrence for a telemark skier – the only issue was a broken safety cable, and once I was back into my gear we cruised gingerly down to the base, pleased for another directed skiing adventure, and content to call it a day.

Later, over a plate of barbeque with Maggie and Jordy, I asked my son what he would have done had I been hurt more seriously. “First I would’ve cared for you, Dad, and I would see if your cellphone had service, and flagged down other skiers to help us.” WOW! Perfect, assess the victim, use resources to get assistance, he’s got it, and in spite of a bashed up elbow, sore arm, and stiff fingers, I feel great knowing that my son and I have enjoyed the first great adventure of another promising ski season, together, doing what we love.

Epilog – Our next chance to ski Copper Mountain was on Christmas Eve, and although most of the area was open, and Directed Skiing merely a fond memory for this season, we were again grateful to ski patrol. You see, the Storm King lift was inoperable on this day, requiring the use of a pair of snow cats to transport skiers up Spaulding Ridge. Another unexpected treat was a ride in a cat…but that story is for another time.

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Our First AdventureMom! »

Posted on January 8, 2011

This video speaks for itself.


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Adventures at Spectator Sports »

Posted on December 20, 2010

 Having just enjoyed another Avalanche game with Alex this past weekend, I’m very happy that I took the time to introduce him to college and professional sports at a very young age.  In fact, I have a great memory of him being held up by the Nuggets mascot, Rocky, when he was just an infant! As the years passed, we had a great tradition of seeing the CU vs. Nebraska game every other Thanksgiving weekend. 

In this clip, you’ll see Nathaniel introduce his preschool son to college football.  It takes a lot of time, patience and firm limits around all the treats a child would like to have, but will pay huge dividends for years to come for you Adventuredads who are into sports.  You might miss some plays now, but it’s well worth it.


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Miles Apart, Connected in Adventure »

Posted on December 11, 2010

My 16 year old son Peter has lived in Wisconsin his entire life.  My name is Nick and I live in Colorado. 


One of life’s tangled webs landed me in a long distance fatherhood situation that despite its inherent heartache – became the biggest blessing in my life.


The love of a father for his son conquered all obstacles in “figuring out” how to build connection over geographic expanse. 


A friend recently pointed out that many families living under the same roof don’t necessarily have atunement and connection. Between professional careers, social medias, video games and the myriad of other societal distractions and disconnects – some families lose touch with the importance of true one on one quality time with their kids. 


The blessing of my situation has been that the quality and depth of the relationship with my son evolved from a commitment at his birth to be “present” in his life. Although our time was limited to 4 four day visits per year for his first 8 years – we enjoyed uninterrupted joy together.


The attached pictures were taken last summer when Peter came to Colorado for two weeks. We packed the VW “Thing” with camping equipment – whistled for our Dog and hit the open road west into the Rockies and eventually south into New Mexico. We disappeared for 8 days and saw some amazing beautiful landscapes following our mutually adventurous souls without an itinerary or calendar. We chugged through Minturn, Leadville, Aspen, Carbondale, Crested Butte, Lake City, Silverton, Telluride, Durango, and eventually into Ojo Caliente New Mexico. 


The great outdoors and the open road tend to land one outside of cell phone and texting “range” . Funny how our cellphones whereabouts became unknown after awhile…


On the road – without all the buzzy distractions  of everyday life – a sense of connective “nirvana” happens between father and son by way of quality conversations, spontaneity and humor – all intertwined with comfortable silence affording the time and space to absorb and reflect. To truly “feel” the love. 


Quality father / son  time on the road is like nice warm maple syrup over a delicious hot pancake



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Chicken Adventures! »

Posted on November 27, 2010

For my friend Philippe and his daughter Harper, their daily adventure happens right in their own back yard!  While we’ve never spent much time around chickens, it was fun watching the two of them care for their friends, collect the eggs, and learn some deeper lessons.  We hope you enjoy their adventure!


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A Father and Son Go Ultra! »

Posted on November 17, 2010

The adventure started in 1989.  I was six years old, and my dad and I raced up and down the washboard dirt roads of Evergreen on our bikes.  I was Greg LeMond, and he was Bernard Hinault.  The stakes were high as we saught victory in the Tour de France, and I always seemed to edge him out at the line even though he was a formidable ultra-endurance athlete.

 Over the next twenty years, I watched in awe as my dad completed the Leadville 100, Badwater 146 Ultra Marathon, and Eco Challenge Adventure Races all over the world, among other events.  When I began competing in adventure races in 2003, Dad was right by my side.  Always my number one fan, he has helped me numerous times as a member of the support crew, and we have raced together in races involving snowshoeing, running, mountain biking, paddling, and a number of other sports. 

 In 2009, we traveled together to the Rock and Ice Ultra, a 200+ mile self-supported running/snowshoeing stage race in the Canada’s Northwest Territories.  Hanging out in the warm tent with my dad while the northern lights shined outside was one of the highlights of my life.

 I’m looking forward to becoming a dad in January, and I can’t wait for three generations of Macy’s to hit the trails together!

 Travis Macy

www.followtravismacy.blogspot.co

 

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