Going berry picking with Jimmy and Michael reminded me of the importance of patience, flexibility and having an AdventureDad mind set when you’re with your preschool child. Dealing with the changing desires and emotions of a preschooler as well as changes in your original plans requires a large measure of adaptability. It also reminded me of how working together with your hands can be a great way to bond and the perfect conditions for connecting emotionally. My son and I had several calming moments at Tim’s farm after 9/11 and several other difficult times in our lives. If you watch the whole clip, you’ll also meet a dad who followed his bliss into a new life!